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Setting and achieving goals is an essential skill for success in today's world. Parents can help their children learn how to set and achieve realistic goals by following these basic guidelines for goal setting.
Set goals in achievable terms and language.
Children considering long-term goals such as making the honor roll, sports team, or being accepted to college need to break those goals into smaller, short-term goals. For example, they can work their way toward the desired outcome by completing assignments on time, practicing basic dribbling skills, or working on building an activity resume.
Set the steps needed to accomplish each goal.
When it comes to goal setting, imagine a ladder. Each step is necessary to reach the top. Once children see that each rung of the ladder must be mastered before the goal can be realized, they will understand the importance of practice.
Keep a record of progress.
It's important that parents let children know they are accountable for all steps to a goal. Keep track of where they are, asking questions, and discussing developments and changes are all part of goal setting.
Don't be afraid to change goals.
After closer examination, a child may realize that his or her long-term goal is too difficult to achieve. There is nothing wrong with altering goals or switching goals completely, as long as your wishes and dreams are being served.
Celebrate achievements.
Take time to rejoice when a goal is met. If your children work hard to move from one rung of the ladder to another, mark that achievement with recognition and celebration. The fun of celebrating the accomplishment together will be remembered and will help make the next rung of the ladder easier to reach.
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